当男人爱上女人

评分：

6.0 还行

分类：剧情爱情地区：美国年份：1994

简介：迈克尔（安迪•加西亚饰）与爱莉丝（梅格•瑞恩饰）有宽敞的寓所，可爱的孩子，生详情

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更新时间:2014-01-06

当男人爱上女人影评：When a Man Loves a Woman - 7/10

曾几何时，在我青春懵懂的那个年代，Meg Ryan一直是我心中的女神，当时觉得要是能找到这样的一个女朋友或者老婆将会是何等的幸事。

虽然早知道本片的评分不高，但因为Meg Ryan的原因，还是看了。看完后却惊喜地发现，这部电影完全没有想象的那般糟糕。Meg Ryan和Andy Garcia都有十分出色的表现，就连诸多配角（Philip Seymour Hoffman也在内）也是一样出彩。

影片的故事不是我喜欢的那类，虽然十分的正统甚至有一点点老套，但还是蛮打动人的。夫妻之间的爱与沟通，是那么的重要，有些时候，就算你们生活在一起的时间再长，你都很难去彻底揣测到对方百分百的心思，更何况男人和女人本身就是两种不同思维的动物。在沟通不畅的时候，充满耐心和包容是最重要的。而支撑耐心和包容的又是什么呢？是爱。

看这部电影的时候，我自己的婚姻也走到了尽头，审视本片的同时审视自己，百感交集。男人爱上女人，这不是什么难的事情。而一个男人该怎样去爱这个女人，怎样去沟通，影片没有给出简单的答案。给对方想要的爱之前，需要了解对方真正需要什么也同样重要。

最后贴个Quote吧，因为他实实在在地感动到了我：

Michael Green: My wife is an alcoholic. Best person I ever met. She has 600 different smiles. They can light up your life. They can make you laugh out loud, just like that. They can even make you cry, just like that. That's just with her smiles. You'd have to see her with her kids. You'd have to see how they look at her, when she's not looking. To think of all the things she lives through, and I couldn't help her.

Alice Green: Maybe helping wasn't your job.

Michael Green: Well, it wasn't. See I love her. And I tried everything, except really listening, really listening, and that's how I left her alone. I was so ashamed of that, and I couldn't even tell her. Maybe if I tell her she'd love me anyway.

Alice Green: Or more. She would have loved you even more. I think you should tell all this stuff to your wife.

和Michael一样，我为没能耐心地听你讲话而深深地懊悔。。